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Your Agent's Commission Is Now Fully Transparent. Here's What That Means for Your Closing Costs.

Sellers are offering more concessions than at any point since the market shifted. The NAR settlement changed how buyer-agent pay gets disclosed. Here's how to use both developments.

By Owen CastellanosMay 13, 20267 min read

The Window Is Open. Here's How to Walk Through It.

For the first time in three years, buyers are not begging.

In January 2026, only 12% of buyers waived their inspection contingency, a new low since NAR started tracking this metric in April 2021. Only 15% waived their appraisal contingency, matching a low from 2023. [2]

That is the market's way of saying: the leverage has shifted. When fewer buyers are waiving protections, sellers have to compete for your offer, not the other way around. And right now, housing affordability has been improving for seven consecutive months as rates have declined from their 2023 peaks. [2]

Here is what that shift actually puts in your pocket.

The NAR Settlement Changed the Fine Print

Before you negotiate anything, understand one structural change that happened in 2024. The NAR proposed settlement, with an August 17 implementation deadline, introduced new requirements around how your buyer's agent gets paid. [4]

Specifically, agents must now enter written agreements with buyers before touring any home. That agreement must disclose the agent's compensation, and the amount must be "objectively ascertainable," not a range. [4]

Here is what the industry says this means: compensation is negotiable and always has been. What changed is the visibility. Offers of compensation from the listing broker to the buyer's broker can no longer be communicated on an MLS. [4]

For you, the buyer, this has a practical upside: you are now having a compensation conversation upfront, in writing, before you tour your first property. That is the moment to ask what your agent's commission actually is, and whether a lower rate would be acceptable given the market.

Seller Concessions Are Not a Gift. They're a Line Item.

Around 42% of homes sold in the final quarter of 2022 included some kind of concession from the seller, up from 30% the previous quarter. [1] Those numbers have only grown as the market shifted further toward buyers.

Sellers can offer concessions that cover:

  • Title search fees
  • Loan origination costs
  • Inspection fees
  • Homeowners association fees
  • Real estate taxes
  • Home repairs and updates
  • The buyer's agent commission [6]

If you are using an FHA loan, the cap is particularly generous. FHA allows seller concessions of up to 6% of the home's purchase price or appraised value, whichever is lower. [5] On a $400,000 home, that is up to $24,000 in concessions. Compare that to the typical closing cost range of 2% to 7% of the purchase price, which means $8,000 to $28,000 on the same home. [1]

One thing the NAR consumer guide makes clear: if the seller offers to pay your buyer's agent directly, that payment is excluded from the lender's concession limits and must be made off-MLS. [6]

The markup is here: sellers can advertise total concessions on an MLS, but only as the total sum and not conditioned on or tied to payment to a buyer broker. [6] That means if your agent is recommending a title company, an inspector, or a lender, you should ask whether that recommendation came with a referral arrangement. More on that in a moment.

Rate Buydowns: The Negotiable Line Item Nobody Explains

In the hot 2022 market, when rates hit the high 7s, buyers were commonly requesting 2-1 buydowns, where the seller pays discount points at closing to lower your rate for the first two years of the loan. [1] The buyer was banking on refinancing before the buydown period ended.

Sixty percent of home builders are currently using sales incentives, like buying down mortgage rates, to move inventory. [3] That number tells you two things: the practice is standard in new construction, and it is available in resale transactions when you ask.

The mechanic is straightforward. Discount points are paid once at closing and reduce your interest rate for the life of the loan. A temporary buydown (1-0, 2-1) reduces the rate for a set period, typically one to three years. [1]

Ask your lender to run the math on a permanent buydown versus a temporary one, and ask whether the seller will cover the cost. The script at closing table is simple:

"Has the seller indicated whether they are willing to cover discount points? What is the cost per point, and what is the monthly savings?"

Where the Markup Lives: Preferred Providers

Here is where industry incentives create a blind spot for buyers.

Every party at your closing earns money when the deal closes. Your agent, the title company, the lender, the home warranty seller, the inspector: all of them are paid at closing or not at all. That structure creates a consistent incentive to keep the transaction moving, even when slowing down would protect you.

One of the most common markup opportunities lives in the "preferred" title company, "recommended" inspector, or "in-house" lender your agent suggests. These referral relationships are often governed by agreements that compensate the referring party. Some are legal under RESPA's Section 8(c)(4) safe harbor. Some are not.

The line item you should scrutinize: any fee labeled as coming from a "preferred" or "affiliated" provider. Ask directly:

"Do you have any ownership interest or referral arrangement with this title company?"

You are entitled to use any title company you choose. Getting three independent quotes is not complicated, and the difference in title insurance premiums can run hundreds of dollars on the same transaction.

What to Ask For, Right Now, in Writing

The NAR settlement means you are signing a written buyer agreement before you tour your first home. That agreement is your first negotiation document, not your last.

Before you make an offer, instruct your agent to include a concession request. NAR's own consumer guide confirms that concessions can be advertised upfront or negotiated as part of a home purchase agreement, and that they are often written as a specific dollar amount in the contract. [6]

The ask is negotiable, but the window is not permanent. "Buyers are setting the tone of the housing market this year, and sellers are listening," John Downs, senior vice president at Vellum Mortgage, told Yahoo Finance. [1] But inventory is still limited in many metros, and the spring selling season brings more competition.

What This Means for You

The structural picture is this: buyer leverage is real right now, but it is not permanent. Fewer buyers are waiving contingencies than at any point since 2021, but in hot metros, multiple-offer situations still appear on desirable properties. The NAR settlement did not reduce agent commissions; it made them transparent and upfront, which means you now know what you are paying and can negotiate it.

The trade-off is this: agents have an financial incentive to close the deal. Title companies have an incentive to be the "preferred" provider your agent recommends. Lenders have an incentive to suggest products that generate revenue beyond the interest rate. None of these incentives are evil, but none of them are aligned with minimizing your closing costs.

Your job is to ask the question your agent, title company, and lender do not volunteer an answer to.

What You Can Do This Week

  1. Ask your agent to show you the written buyer agreement before you tour any property. Read the compensation clause. Ask if the figure is negotiable. If your agent says commissions "cannot be negotiated," that is not accurate. NAR's own guidance states commissions are negotiable. [4]

  2. When you submit an offer, include a specific seller concession request. The script: "Buyer requests seller to provide $X in concessions toward closing costs, to be designated at closing for [title fees / loan origination / inspection / rate buydown] as permitted by the lender." FHA loans allow up to 6% of purchase price or appraised value. [5]

  3. Get three independent title quotes. Call a title company your agent did not recommend. Ask for a comparative quote on title insurance and settlement services. Name the other two quotes you are comparing. Use the savings as your anchor.

  4. Ask your lender to itemize discount points by dollar amount, not just as a percentage. Get the monthly payment difference between buying down the rate and not. Bring that math to the negotiating table with the seller.

  5. Verify the wire transfer protocol at your title company before you send any money. Call the title company at a number you looked up independently, not one provided in an email, to confirm wiring instructions. This is the single highest-risk moment in any real estate transaction.

The market is giving you something it did not give buyers in 2021 and 2022: a chance to ask. Take it.

Notes

  1. 1.Gabriella Cruz-Martinez, "‘Deals to be had:’ Homebuyers should ask for these incentives while they have the upper hand,", Yahoo Finance, last modified January 21, 2023, https://finance.yahoo.com/news/deals-to-be-had-homebuyers-should-ask-for-these-incentives-while-they-have-the-upper-hand-181230485.html.
  2. 2."Conditions Change—Opportunity Remains,", "NAR confidence survey inspection waiver appraisal contingency December 2022 OR 2023" - Google News, last modified February 13, 2026, https://www.nar.realtor/blogs/economists-outlook/conditions-change-opportunity-remains.
  3. 3."Home Sales Take Significant Leap in November,", "NAR confidence survey inspection waiver appraisal contingency December 2022 OR 2023" - Google News, last modified December 19, 2024, https://www.nar.realtor/magazine/real-estate-news/home-sales-take-significant-leap-in-november.
  4. 4."Compensation, Commission and Concessions,", "site:nar.realtor seller concessions closing costs policy position statement" - Google News, last modified August 13, 2024, https://www.nar.realtor/magazine/real-estate-news/sales-marketing/compensation-commission-and-concessions.
  5. 5."Navigating FHA Loan Requirements: Crafting Home Purchase Agreements With Ease,", "site:nar.realtor seller concessions closing costs policy position statement" - Google News, last modified November 14, 2024, https://www.nar.realtor/magazine/real-estate-news/sales-marketing/navigating-fha-loan-requirements-crafting-home-purchase-agreements-with-ease.
  6. 6."Consumer Guide: Seller Concessions,", "site:nar.realtor seller concessions closing costs policy position statement" - Google News, last modified September 24, 2024, https://www.nar.realtor/the-facts/consumer-guide-seller-concessions.